Aristotle’s explanation of friendship is one of my favorite points he makes. I’ve never thought to classify or qualify my friendships in that manner. It really helps to explain how some friendships last longer than others. For example, it’s nice to have friends that you meet in class. Sharing notes is always beneficial, but it’s really good to have someone to talk to before and after class, or discuss events within or outside of the classroom. But these are just friendships of utility it seems. Perhaps that’s why, when the class is over, there isn’t necessarily some deep sadness or regret when you no longer get to see that friend anymore. This is what you always knew would happen; because that’s the way those types of friendships work. In fact, if I look back, probably many more of my past friendships were those of utility than I thought, they were just dragged out a little longer. For that matter, I’m not sure I’ve ever experienced what Aristotle terms a “good friendship.” I’ve had friendships that were very meaningful to me, but they didn’t last, and I have a feeling that if they were real and true they might have been more permanent. I know that people grow apart and that is natural I suppose, but is it possible that two people can maintain a virtuous friendship for most of their lifetimes? I’d like to think that it’s possible. And if so, are they something that occurs by chance or is it something we must actively seek after every day? What are the chances that I will find someone so like myself that such a friendship is possible? I must admit that I feel pessimistic about the likelihood of attaining this perfect friendship, but it’s uplifting nonetheless to think about.